StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 2 months agoWhat makes someone a "genuine" person to youmessage-squaremessage-square22linkfedilinkarrow-up119arrow-down11
arrow-up118arrow-down1message-squareWhat makes someone a "genuine" person to youStarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 2 months agomessage-square22linkfedilink
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down3·2 months agoLike, genuinely a person? Or do you mean a person who thinks that being “authentic” is more important than being nice?
minus-squareStarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·2 months agoI suppose if you were to distill it down, my question could also be, what makes you trust someone?
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down2·2 months agoMe. I make me trust someone. But to get back to your question, by “genuine” do you mean “sincere”? Because that’s not the same as “trustworthy”.
minus-squareStarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·2 months agoI suppose so yes
minus-squaresopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 months agoAuthenticity and kindess are seperate categories. Why the suggested conflict?
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 months agoBecause IME the only people who talk about “authenticity” or their “genuine self” use it as an excuse for rude or selfish behavior.
Like, genuinely a person?
Or do you mean a person who thinks that being “authentic” is more important than being nice?
I suppose if you were to distill it down, my question could also be, what makes you trust someone?
Me. I make me trust someone.
But to get back to your question, by “genuine” do you mean “sincere”? Because that’s not the same as “trustworthy”.
I suppose so yes
Authenticity and kindess are seperate categories. Why the suggested conflict?
Because IME the only people who talk about “authenticity” or their “genuine self” use it as an excuse for rude or selfish behavior.