Naturally, Lemmy as it is. It cannot fulfill everyone’s needs.
I’m in the same boat, I left Reddit as soon as that crap happened but I still went back because there’s some niche that’s not at the present in Lemmy sadly.
But I do try other options before Reddit. You could try and look around but don’t feel guilty if you resort to Reddit.
Didn’t do a lot. Went for a coffee and a walk with my buddy. Asked him what he think of polygamy as one of topic to discuss. Then I brought up that I got second girlfriend, her name is April. He said okay, April. Then I added her last name is Fools. And he was like ugh. Got em.