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  • Human beings are social creatures, and being able to connect with one another is one of the best parts about the internet. But the internet’s incessant need to streamline and optimize how I connect with friends by sending me notifications the moment they’re active on TikTok, posting new stories on Instagram, or liking the same video as me is has turned those real friendships into supervised ones and that fucking sucks.

    This author is making a mountain out of a molehill. There are other ways to interact on social media that aren’t just sharing memes and posts (and I’m pretty sure you can pause suggested content on Instagram anyway). You can have an actual conversation with somebody, an algorithm can’t “beat you to it” or “rob you of the opportunity” or whatever.

    Or just call them up and hang out with them in the meat space if you’re so concerned.










  • cattywampas@lemm.eetoCasual Conversation @lemm.eeLess sugary soda? (US)
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    14 days ago

    What you need is willpower. No way around it. Your options are:

    Drink soda sweetened with sugar

    Drink soda sweetened with artificial sweeteners

    Drink unsweetened soda

    I would just stay on the seltzer until you’re used to it. I can’t even drink sugary soda anymore, maybe as a treat once in a while, but never a whole can or bottle at once. You’ll get there too.