Honestly I just browse all and comment here and there, nothing too specific

That’s surprising to me. I’ve had the opposite experience, only encountering one butthead (who had plenty of downvotes).

I hope your experience improves, I rather like it here

The day the earth stood stupid

This bad boy has helped me find some good communities https://feddit.nl/c/trendingcommunities

(I don’t know yet how to share the fancy links)