• Turret3857@infosec.pub
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    5 days ago

    this is the curse of neural divergent couples across the globe. we will never know the other side of the bed

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      5 days ago

      Oh my, my partner and I are both very different kinds of ND hahaha

      I am extremely particular about heaps of things in my life, but The Giant Laying Rectangle is just a huge wonderful place I can flop on any part of and everything is okay for a while. We have a pretty comfy bed, which was cursed with an extremely thick memory foam topper that was gifted to us, turning it into the Ensnaring Comfort Zone of Eternal Sinking.

      Glob help me if my items are in the incorrect place on my person when I’m out-and-about, if my shirt is a bit too snug on my chest or neck, or if the clutter on my desk doesn’t taste right to my eyes… but once it’s time for ComfyLand, life is good.

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        4 days ago

        I suppose it depends on the kind of ND to have the bedside preference then lol

        I will say, I envy what u have a little LOL

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          4 days ago

          The bed thing is nice but the particularity in other aspects and tics get exhausting sometimes… ah well. Gotta do life with what I’m life’d.

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        5 days ago

        Y’all don’t know the glory of individualized mattresses. We each have our own mattress which feels better for our bodies.