• KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 months ago

    I’ve worn my hair long a few times in my life, and those specific two girls liked playing with my hair. Most of the rest of the women I’ve ever been with didn’t really want much to do with it.

    i think it depends on how you wear the hair, and how you carry yourself, there are a handful of masculine long hair styles that just don’t work outside of a masculine aesthetic i think. Or at least have a perceptibly different aesthetic due to the person they’re attached to.

    This is a lot less common among younger generations though. People care a lot less.

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      2 months ago

      I brush my hair straight to get the tangles out then tie it back in a simple pony tail at the base of my skull. I don’t really style it much myself.

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        2 months ago

        i think it’s a little bit more involved than the literal hair style personally, some people just look good without hair, some people just look good with hair.

        I for example just look better with long hair. Something about the way my face is structured, and the natural position that my hair sits in, just makes for a better look that way.

        Probably subjective, but i think that’s the only thing that matters lol. I think as long as you manage to find that style, and carry it well, other people will generally follow.